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The emotional relationship of attachment in a schizoid
Human
beings, before 5 years, form an affective relationship of attachment with our mother. The various nuances that converge in this learning,
both from the mother and
the baby, determine the
style of this relationship. After establishing this
attachment relationship, with the new style, specific to every child, it is
established, printed, set...,and this will be our style of attachment with other human beings, for the rest of our life. However....
.... schizoids are characterised,
precisely, by not forming that affective relationship of attachment with the
mother. Later will repeat this guideline with all the people which are related. This is the
schizoid detachment
The dog can be considered as a model of rooting, attachment, and link. He ranks the last place in the social scale
of their herd, but he feels fully adjusted and happy. He establishes happily strong ties with “his” territory and
with the members of “his” herd, although they are human beings. Fully
integrated, he defends his territory and defends to hers which feels very
close. This model can serve as a referent
to confirm that the schizoid is
exactly the opposite
The schizoid goes through life
without establishing ties with
nothing or with nobody, without forming
links. Not even looks happy as a member of his family.
==” I live in the midst of a family, among the best and most loving people,
feeling more strange that a stranger”- wrote
Kafka.
==”I feel uprooted”- explained spontaneously a schizoid.
Maladjusted,
unhappy with his fate, without joy,
without feeling part of nothing, nor joined to nobody.
In milder cases he can have moderate religious sentiments, patriotic, family...
In more severe cases can be unable to undertake any life project, considering
that the life is absurd and that she does not make sense.
Do not ask to a schizoid by his uncle or
cousin favorite, by the hero who he loves ...: those words, vehicles of strong emotions
of attachment, do not make sense to him ...
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